引導語：戀愛不僅僅是年輕時候的事，而是一輩子的事！真正成熟完美的愛情，是一輩子“攜子之手，與子偕老”，只求曾經擁有，不求天長地久那隻是一場遊戲！牢記十大法則，讓你們永不分手！
Introductory phrase: when in love not only a young thing, but a lifetime thing! Real mature perfect love is a lifetime "With their children's hands, and grow old" just to have, not seeking forever was just a game! Ten rules in mind, so you will never break up!
一、告訴你愛的人，你愛他（她）
雖然常說行動勝於言語，但是言語卻往往比行動更有表達力，直截了當。我們要時不時地對戀人說出我們的愛。一句簡單的“我愛你”或“你就是我的全部”就很有用，可以使戀人感受到關心，感受到愛，在戀愛中有安全感。
While often said that actions speak louder than words, However words are often more expressive than the action, straightforward. We should tell our lovers of our love, from time to time. A simple "I love you" or "you're my everything", are useful, you can make lovers feel cared about, feel loved, and in love with a sense of security.
二、時不時流露愛意
小小的親密舉動——在過道上擦身而過時拍對方背一下，坐在沙發上摟著戀人的肩膀，挨著坐時手放在對方的腿上，逛街時手牽手——會讓你的另一半感受到濃濃情意，傳遞你的真情愛意。小小的觸摸很重要，比整夜的翻雲覆雨強多了。
Second, the outpouring of love from time to time
Small intimate act - in the aisles passing each other and giving each other a look, lovers sitting on the sofa arm around each other, sitting next to each other and placing a hand on their leg, holding hands when shopping - will let you the other half feels a deep affection, expressing your true love. A little touch is very important, much stronger than the a whole night of played games.
Small intimate act - in the aisles passing each other and giving each other a look, lovers sitting on the sofa arm around each other, sitting next to each other and placing a hand on their leg, holding hands when shopping - will let you the other half feels a deep affection, expressing your true love. A little touch is very important, much stronger than the a whole night of played games.
三、懂得欣賞彼此。
我們要常常告訴戀人我們最喜歡他(她)哪一點——愛慕他(她)什麼，他(她)有什麼讓我們驕傲，我們看來他(她)有哪些優點。讓對方知道我們欣賞他(她)不僅僅是戀愛初期的事情，而是貫穿於我們整個一生。我們要不斷的鼓勵和支持彼此。只有這樣我們才可以幫助他(她)發揮其的潛能。
我們要常常告訴戀人我們最喜歡他(她)哪一點——愛慕他(她)什麼，他(她)有什麼讓我們驕傲，我們看來他(她)有哪些優點。讓對方知道我們欣賞他(她)不僅僅是戀愛初期的事情，而是貫穿於我們整個一生。我們要不斷的鼓勵和支持彼此。只有這樣我們才可以幫助他(她)發揮其的潛能。
Third, know how to appreciate each other.
We often tell our lover what we like most about him (her) - love him (her) what he (she) what makes us proud, our views about their beneficial qualities Let the other know that we appreciate him (her), not only in the beginning, but throughout our entire lives. We must continue to encourage and support each other. Only in this way, we can help him (her) to use their potential.
We often tell our lover what we like most about him (her) - love him (her) what he (she) what makes us proud, our views about their beneficial qualities Let the other know that we appreciate him (her), not only in the beginning, but throughout our entire lives. We must continue to encourage and support each other. Only in this way, we can help him (her) to use their potential.
四、敞開心扉
不要封閉自己，掩藏自己的好惡、理想、恐懼、成就、失誤等等。我們可以和戀人一起分擔重要的事情。另外，我們應該保證戀人是分享我們秘密做多的人，而非其他人。雖說在最親密的人前也要保留一定的個人空間，但還是要盡可能地多抽出時間來和戀人談談心。
不要封閉自己，掩藏自己的好惡、理想、恐懼、成就、失誤等等。我們可以和戀人一起分擔重要的事情。另外，我們應該保證戀人是分享我們秘密做多的人，而非其他人。雖說在最親密的人前也要保留一定的個人空間，但還是要盡可能地多抽出時間來和戀人談談心。
Fourth, to open their hearts.
Do not close yourself, hide your likes and dislikes, ideals, fears, achievements, mistakes, and so on. We can be lovers together to share important matters. In addition, we should ensure that lovers only share our secrets with us, rather than other people. Although in front of people, but we must also retain a certain degree of personal space, but still have to find time, as much as possible, to express ourselves to each other.
Do not close yourself, hide your likes and dislikes, ideals, fears, achievements, mistakes, and so on. We can be lovers together to share important matters. In addition, we should ensure that lovers only share our secrets with us, rather than other people. Although in front of people, but we must also retain a certain degree of personal space, but still have to find time, as much as possible, to express ourselves to each other.
五、時刻做戀人的堅實後盾
生活中當戀人遭遇失業或失去至親的傷心事時，我們都明白該如何來安慰和鼓勵對方。同樣，當戀人為與同事吵架，上班不順，一時想不起支票放哪等瑣事心煩時，我們更要懂得支持和安慰他們。當然前提是我們不能逆來順受，不能任其打罵。但爭吵發生時，我們還是應該臉皮厚一點，保持冷靜和理智，先聽聽他們在煩什麼，盡可能體諒他們，至少要安慰他們一下。
生活中當戀人遭遇失業或失去至親的傷心事時，我們都明白該如何來安慰和鼓勵對方。同樣，當戀人為與同事吵架，上班不順，一時想不起支票放哪等瑣事心煩時，我們更要懂得支持和安慰他們。當然前提是我們不能逆來順受，不能任其打罵。但爭吵發生時，我們還是應該臉皮厚一點，保持冷靜和理智，先聽聽他們在煩什麼，盡可能體諒他們，至少要安慰他們一下。
Fifth, ensure you always maintain a firm foundation
When one of you has a life experience of unemployment or loss of a loved one, we all know how to comfort and encourage each other. Similarly, when they quarrel with colleagues, work changes, and can not think how to perform daily chores or make decisions when they are upset, we want to know how to support and comfort them. Of course, the premise is that we can not submissive, not allowed to be physically and verbally abusive. But when the quarrel occurs, we should have a thicker skin, remain calm and rational, they are annoying to hear and just need time to vent their feelings, we can at least comfort them about it.
When one of you has a life experience of unemployment or loss of a loved one, we all know how to comfort and encourage each other. Similarly, when they quarrel with colleagues, work changes, and can not think how to perform daily chores or make decisions when they are upset, we want to know how to support and comfort them. Of course, the premise is that we can not submissive, not allowed to be physically and verbally abusive. But when the quarrel occurs, we should have a thicker skin, remain calm and rational, they are annoying to hear and just need time to vent their feelings, we can at least comfort them about it.
六、送禮物
我們要抓住各種機會送戀人禮物以示愛意。禮物可以是在書店買合其心意的書，一份特別的甜點，也可以是一件首飾，一件衣服——無論大小，只要能告訴對方你在想念他(她)就可以了。我們也可以留張愛的便條，工作室發條“我愛你”的短信。這些都可以體現出我們一直掛念著對方，而對方則會對自己更加有信心，有安全感。
我們要抓住各種機會送戀人禮物以示愛意。禮物可以是在書店買合其心意的書，一份特別的甜點，也可以是一件首飾，一件衣服——無論大小，只要能告訴對方你在想念他(她)就可以了。我們也可以留張愛的便條，工作室發條“我愛你”的短信。這些都可以體現出我們一直掛念著對方，而對方則會對自己更加有信心，有安全感。
Six Send a Gift
We must seize every opportunity to send a gift to our lovers in the meaning for love. Gifts can be bought in bookstores combining the mind of the book, a special dessert, it can be a piece of jewelry, a piece of clothing - regardless of size, as long as you can tell the other you miss him (her) on it. We can also leave a note, little "I love you" messages. These can be reflect we have been worried about each other, while the other will be more confident of their own, and have a sense of security.
We must seize every opportunity to send a gift to our lovers in the meaning for love. Gifts can be bought in bookstores combining the mind of the book, a special dessert, it can be a piece of jewelry, a piece of clothing - regardless of size, as long as you can tell the other you miss him (her) on it. We can also leave a note, little "I love you" messages. These can be reflect we have been worried about each other, while the other will be more confident of their own, and have a sense of security.
七、諒解戀人的缺點和不足
我們對彼此不合理的期望很有可能導致戀愛的失敗。除非我們跟機器人結婚，否則我們不能要求對方完美無缺。人總會有弱點和不足，這些是個性，而非毛病。我們要學會了解和接受對方的癖好，一個正常人不可避免地會有一些癖好。我們都知道自身的弱點往往令我們感到不安，所以一定不要責備戀人的缺點，也不要故意揭戀人的短處。
我們對彼此不合理的期望很有可能導致戀愛的失敗。除非我們跟機器人結婚，否則我們不能要求對方完美無缺。人總會有弱點和不足，這些是個性，而非毛病。我們要學會了解和接受對方的癖好，一個正常人不可避免地會有一些癖好。我們都知道自身的弱點往往令我們感到不安，所以一定不要責備戀人的缺點，也不要故意揭戀人的短處。
Seven, understanding the weaknesses and shortcomings of our lovers
Our unreasonable expectations of each other is likely to lead to the failure in love. Unless we get married with the robot, otherwise we can not ask the other perfectly. People will always have weaknesses and shortcomings, these are their personality, rather than problems. We must learn to understand and accept each other's habits, a normal person will inevitably will have some habits. We all know our own weaknesses are often uncomfortable, so be sure not to blame the shortcomings of our lovers, lovers do not intentionally expose our weaknesses.
Our unreasonable expectations of each other is likely to lead to the failure in love. Unless we get married with the robot, otherwise we can not ask the other perfectly. People will always have weaknesses and shortcomings, these are their personality, rather than problems. We must learn to understand and accept each other's habits, a normal person will inevitably will have some habits. We all know our own weaknesses are often uncomfortable, so be sure not to blame the shortcomings of our lovers, lovers do not intentionally expose our weaknesses.
八、一定勻出兩人獨處的時間
不論兩人有多麼忙，要保證一兩個星期有一個晚上是兩人一起度過的。兩人可以創造新的回憶，分享彼此的故事，也可以是僅僅是在一起，喜歡彼此的陪伴
不論兩人有多麼忙，要保證一兩個星期有一個晚上是兩人一起度過的。兩人可以創造新的回憶，分享彼此的故事，也可以是僅僅是在一起，喜歡彼此的陪伴
Eight, some alone time evens out both
No matter how busy they are, to ensure that twelve weeks is one night they spent together. They can create new memories, share their stories, it can only be together, love each other's company.
No matter how busy they are, to ensure that twelve weeks is one night they spent together. They can create new memories, share their stories, it can only be together, love each other's company.
九、杜絕理所當然的心態
每天我們都應感恩戀人為我們做的一切，感謝他(她)為我們的生命帶來如此多的幸福。我們要記住戀愛中每天的快樂都是我們的另一半為我們做的一點一滴所帶來的(希望我們也這麼做)。永遠不要認為有理所當然的事，戀愛是日積月累的過程，需要我們精心對待，一旦我們開時鬆懈，愛就會逐漸消失。
Nine, to prevent a taken for granted attitude
We should be grateful every day for our lovers, thank him (her) for bringing us so much happiness. We love to remember all our happy days for what we have done while the other half brought a little (I hope we do). Never think there is a matter of course, love is a cumulative process, we need to be treated carefully, for once we allow it to slack, love will gradually disappear.
We should be grateful every day for our lovers, thank him (her) for bringing us so much happiness. We love to remember all our happy days for what we have done while the other half brought a little (I hope we do). Never think there is a matter of course, love is a cumulative process, we need to be treated carefully, for once we allow it to slack, love will gradually disappear.
我們一定要遵守戀愛中的黃金法則：己所不欲，勿施於人。戀人應平分家務活及其他事情。當自己不會格外體貼人時，就不要奢望或要求別人來格外體貼自己.
Ten, seek equality
We must abide in love's Golden Rule: Do unto others, do not impose on others. Lovers should split household chores and other things. When he are not a particularly considerate person, do not expect or require others to pick up the slack out of their own goodness.
We must abide in love's Golden Rule: Do unto others, do not impose on others. Lovers should split household chores and other things. When he are not a particularly considerate person, do not expect or require others to pick up the slack out of their own goodness.
編後語：這十條戀愛法則並非憑空而論，空穴來風。每一條都是獲取幸福的箴言！我們都敬仰愛情，膜拜愛情，但是卻無能真正攜愛情到老。真愛一個人，就應該努力做到攜手一生，永不離棄！
The Editor: these ten rules of love are not abstract terms, groundless. Each maxim is to get happy! We all love, admire, worship love, but hardly can this really ensure love into old age. Love a person, you should strive to work hand in hand for life, and never forsake!
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